Last
week was here in China the "Tomb - sweeping day " . This festival is
called Ching Ming or Qingming , usually held on the 15th day of the spring
equinox, which occurs normally on April 4th or 5th , and it's a day when
the chinese honors the ancestors.
This
particular day is the day when people go to visit the graves of relatives and
clean them, offering food to ancestors and if you ever noticed , this the day
that the Chinese burn this red paper representing money, with which according
to tradition to send money to the dead people. These days are usually holidays
in China , Macau, Hong Kong and Taiwan so many people these days travel to
their hometowns to visit their ancestor with their family.
This tradition is similar to the spanish tradition or the western tradition
when we visit the deceased in late October, but with some differences as I
said. We, as perfect no-chinese thought that could be a great idea to have a
barbecue in a park here in Shanghai, at least to breath some real air, not the
polluted one from the city, and also because we couldn't visit other cities due
to holidays, you know, is when more people move in China, and it's really crazy
to take a train those days. Some Chinese friends said it was not a good idea
because many people would be there because the holidays, and plus, it was a
really nice day to enjoy outside.
At first it seemed that the barbecue was not going to be held,but finally it was really a nice day, because the weather was good, the food also and the people better, coming from Spain, Denmark, Germany, Switzerlandm China, Italy, Korea, United States...And we ha more people that couldn't come, but it was really nice.
In the last minute of Saturday afternoon we changed the location for the barbecue, from Gucun Park, next to the city, to Gongqing Forest Park, where Shanghai ends because the sea is the next thing you will find. The good thing about this park, as its name says, is that is a forest, so it's an immense place. The worst thing is that the barbecue area is very small, and that instead of a barbecue area it was like a battlefield.
In the last minute of Saturday afternoon we changed the location for the barbecue, from Gucun Park, next to the city, to Gongqing Forest Park, where Shanghai ends because the sea is the next thing you will find. The good thing about this park, as its name says, is that is a forest, so it's an immense place. The worst thing is that the barbecue area is very small, and that instead of a barbecue area it was like a battlefield.
That
day we experience by ourselves what is really being Chinese, as we were in the
middle of everything, we were the only foreigners, smoke, people, trash,
screaming, etc.. Totally crazy, but after a while we got used and we integrate
further into the environment that was intoxicating our lungs. We, like good
novices, took a ball to play football, but of course, where we were going to
play something if we could not even move from the outskirts because there were
too many people?
We
couldn't celebrate Hanami like in Japan, but it was something similar, despite
being at 10,000 times faster than Japan, with incredible stress, even people
with a barbecue in the bushes, but it was a great day, I hope that soon we can
repeat.